When Mother’s Day Hurts: For Women Who Didn’t Have the Mom They Needed
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When Mother’s Day Hurts: For Women Who Didn’t Have the Mom They Needed

Mother’s Day isn’t easy when you’re grieving the mother you never had.
For high-achieving women living with unresolved trauma, complicated grief, or anxiety rooted in family dynamics, this day can feel like a quiet crisis. If you feel guilt for needing space, fear around being seen, or pain from a toxic or emotionally unavailable mother—this post is for you. Discover trauma-informed support, language for your pain, and permission to stop performing.

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“I Live In My Head”
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“I Live In My Head”

Living in your head isn’t just overthinking — it’s your nervous system’s response to unprocessed anxiety, trauma, and grief. If your mind won’t slow down and rest feels impossible, this blog will show you why you feel this way—and how healing can finally begin.

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The Silent Grief of Losing the Body You Once Had
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The Silent Grief of Losing the Body You Once Had

Many women silently carry grief for the body they once had—not just in shape, but in identity, safety, and wholeness. This post explores body grief after trauma, anxiety, motherhood, or burnout, and why feeling disconnected from yourself isn’t vanity—it’s a trauma response. If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought, “I don’t feel like me anymore,” this is for you.

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When “Fine” Is Just Code for Survival
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When “Fine” Is Just Code for Survival

There’s a certain kind of woman who knows how to keep going, no matter what. She doesn’t fall apart—not publicly, not loudly. She gets up, gets it done, and holds it all together with practiced ease. Her presence is steady. Her smile is believable. Her to-do list never seems to end, and somehow, she keeps moving through it. But behind her ability to function is a quiet struggle—one shaped by years of high-functioning anxiety, unresolved trauma, and unprocessed grief. What looks like balance from the outside is often a performance rooted in emotional exhaustion and survival mode.

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